Someone Who Encourages You To Be YOU

I think it’s really important to get you somebody who encourages you to be you.

If you’re with someone who complains about you being you,

criticizes personality traits of yours, not because they’re unhealthy but just because they either make them uncomfortable or they simply don’t like them,

tries to change you from doing things that are “you” things into doing things “their way” etc.,

👉🏽they are not your person.👈🏽

It doesn’t mean they are a bad person

or a bad partner,

they are just not designed to be

*your* person

or *your* partner.

One of the many things I love about my husband is how he encourages me to be me.

He makes it easy and does things to encourage me in being more me.

I have spent most of my life encouraging other people to just be who they are and to know they are not just loved but also celebrated for who they are.

I really hadn’t fully experienced what it feels like to receive that in return until becoming Mrs. Mihlfeld.

P.S. for the record, he picked out these shirts and bought them, this was his thing and I did not ask him to do it 😍😅

I am well aware it might have been because he knows what will get us all the compliments when we wear them (he’s right) but also I like to think he did this partly because love is a very “me” thing 😉

Happy Sunday!

#teammihlfeld 😘