Loving means loving people for who they are,

not for who we want them to be or think they should be.

It means letting people do what they’re going to do

instead of trying to control what they do

or how they do it.

It means holding people in any space they need to be in,

whether it includes you or not,

whether you agree or not,

whether you understand or not.

Love invites us into what’s possible,

not what’s plausible.